When we are asked to define what "attractive"
means, the majority
of us respond with a long list of desirable physical
attributes that
are usually paralleled to movie star looks and body types.
The same is true when we are asked the question " What
would
you like to change about yourself to make you more
attractive?"
We instinctively refer to this same list.
Is this wrong? No, not necessarily. Physical
appearance has
proven to weigh heavily in first impressions.
Although being physically attractive can create more
opportunities
for you, if you are not able to live up to the
impressions others have
coming in, then it really doesn't help you going forward.
Besides, many highly successful people clearly do not
have physical
attractiveness working for them. At least not as a first
impression.
Where they excel is in their ability to maximize their
opportunities
to win others over. They may not get as many opportunities,
based
on their physical appearance, but they make the most
of what they
have.
We have all met someone who at first glance was not
overtly
attractive but as we got to know them better, with
each new
meeting or encounter, their level of attractiveness
steadily
increased.
Most of us can't even define what it is that they have
that is
responsible for their growing level of attractiveness.
We call it personality, charisma, charm, magnetism,
allure or
mystique.
But how are these personas conveyed to others? What is it
that they do to have this effect on others?
Contrary to popular belief, people are not born with it.
It is
an acquired skill that anyone can have.
Are you having this effect on others you meet? Are you
able to quickly gain trust, respect and admiration?
The key component that defines your level of success is
how
you project yourself both physically and verbally. Although
this may be simplistic, its amazing how few of us take full
advantage of this powerful skill.
Scientific studies have proven that our body language
and
voice tone contribute over 93% of the impressions we
project.
In short, there is a right way to project yourself and
get the
desired results. It doesn't require altering your physical
appearance through surgery, implants or fad diets.
We take you as you are and make it work for you like you
never could have dreamed possible before.
All that you need is the willingness to make changes and
the knowledge to put it to use.
