Unless you are one of the very few fortunate individuals
that are
dialed in to others that are flirting with them, you
are in the same
boat as 90% of the rest of us that are for the most part,
oblivious to it.
Most of those that do exceedingly well however have made
a
conscious effort to improve and master this sought
after skill.
How did they do it?
There are 3 simple steps
that you must follow if you want
to dramatically improve your ability to detect if he is
flirting
with you and how to respond.
1. Tune in to his Body
Language. Body Language
Signals are the most reliable way of detecting a
persons true inner feelings.
2. Understand what
these signals mean. Interpreting
body language signals accurately is not something
we are born with. It is an acquired skill.
3. Practice. The more
you practice flirting signals, the
more natural you will appear and the more successful
you
will be at it.
Keeping these 3 steps in
mind, here are 10 cues that he
is interested in you.
Top Signs He's
Flirting With You
When men flirt, they generally give off cues that exude
their masculinity. If you notice that a guy is exhibiting
any of these behaviors or gestures, then it's likely that
he's flirting with you! If you are attracted to them, these
are good signs that you can move in and reciprocate his
flirting interests. Look for these signs.
They
include:
- Arches his back.
- Sways his pelvis.
- Laughs loudly.
- Clasps back of his
neck.
- Squares his
shoulders.
- Puffs his chest.
- Straightens his stance.
- Teases you in a
friendly manner.
- Winks at you from a
distance.
- Smiles suggestively.
- Engages in direct eye
contact.
- Casually touches you.
Although these cues can be
revealing, never put all your
weight into one signal. Look for other signals in succession
to substantiate your perceptions. I recommend 4 positive
signals.
There is no substitute for
knowledge. Knowing how to
interpret body language flirting signals and how to
apply the
right techniques and responses to get the desired results
will
not only have a huge impact on how successful you are at
flirting but in all areas of your life.
